Tuesday, October 7, 2014

October 7th

Although the weather was mild this summer that term does not describe Ashley’s summer.  In addition to getting Rudy to several obedience classes and keeping in shape with her therapeutic fitness sessions at Turnstone she found time for…
Attending her 7th Transverse Myelitis Association (TMA) camp in Kentucky
-Going to three weddings
-Hosting a baby shower
-Visiting five new babies of family’s and friends
-Watching two Tincap baseball games
-Spending time with Grandma & Grandpa on their trip back to Indiana
-Catching some rays at Lake Freeman and Lake Michigan
-At the TMA fundraising dinner in Columbus, Ohio
-Soaking in an IU game in sunny 80 degree weather and the very next weekend weathering rain and wind in sub 50 degree Notre Dame

Our neighbor’s oldest daughter was married in July (writer’s side note: both the bride and groom went to Ball State so you know that this was a match made in heaven).  It was a beautiful ceremony and wonderful reception. 

A couple years younger than Ashley, their daughter Chelsea sought Ashley’s advice in selecting high school courses.  Upon discussing her choices with her father he sought assurance that she thought this was the appropriate mix of studies.  Her response was, “Dad, Ashley Harrington recommends it.”  At the end of our cul-de-sac there was no greater educational authority as Ashley.

In July we ventured south to Scottsville, Kentucky to attend our third TMA family camp at the Center for Courageous Kids.  The weather was great; we had some awesome sunsets. The camp’s staff was superb.  We have always had a positive experience at camp and yet this year they seemed to raise the bar when it came to staff-camper interaction.

Ashley and Pauline                                                                       Sandy

Messy Games!

Ladies Makeover Night

A beautiful day for a horse ride

The educational sessions were informative and well presented.  Each year the number of professionals from doctors, therapists and researchers focused on these acute demyelinating conditions grows.  This is leading to insights and more importantly, an improved dissemination of advancements getting to the individuals and caretakers dealing with these conditions.  It is a blessing to be part of a community that is proactively seeking solutions.  The annual camp is a wonderful opportunity for us to renew those connections and capitalize on what we learn that can be applied to assisting Ashley in her recovery.

If you look very closely at the far left...

It's Ashley and Dr. Kerr
with Mom & Dad hiding

Ashley and Mary hosted a baby shower for her cousin Jessica in early August and was visiting their new baby before the month was over.  By the end of September two more cousins and two good friends also had new arrivals.  Ashley was cooing over a lot of babies.

Also during the month of August Grandma and Grandpa sought refuge from the Florida heat ‘back home in Indiana’.  We offered sunshine, low humidity and of course, Ashley’s smile.

With Grandpa and Grandma at a Tincap's Game

Dancing up a storm at her St. Mary's classmate Andrea's wedding 

Wishing Emily good luck before she walks down the isle

At Beth & Craig's boat on Lake Michigan

September means birthday time for Ashley and we celebrated her 27th along with her Uncle Mike and Aunt Barb.  Her Cousin Jessica came with her children and we had a great evening.

Last week in September - IU vs Maryland in Bloomington - Sunny and 80

First week in October - Notre Dame vs Stanford at Notre Dame - Rainy and 50; 
tailgating with the Hogans

Ashley has been taking Rudy to obedience classes.  It’s as much training the people as it is the dog.  Lately Ashley’s vocalizing has improved and Rudy is replying to her when she calls him and is beginning to responding to her commands.

At the end of September we went to a fundraiser in Columbus, Ohio for a TMA.  We enjoyed seeing people we normally only see at the TMA Camp and meeting others involved in TMA that do not attend camp.  Dr. Greenberg, who was the first specialist we spoke with when Ashley was stuck with ADEM was the featured speaker.  He delivered an interesting speech with the wit we have come to enjoy.

With Dr. Greenberg at the TMA Dinner

Immediately following his speech there was a video to thank Sandy Siegel.  Sandy has been the president of TMA since its inception 20 years ago.  We had the pleasure to be in the video and to express a token of our appreciation for all he and his wife Pauline have done for the TMA family.

Speaking of the 20th anniversary of TMA my wonderful sister Lynn took the TMA 20/20 challenge.  The goal was to raise $400.00 via a $20.00 personal donation and getting 19 friends to do likewise.  As of this blog posting Lynn’s efforts have well surpassed the goal with a total of $1,015.00.  Lynn’s efforts and the generous contributions from many wonderful people have Lynn ranked as the third largest group of contributions.

If you are looking for a worthy cause to support we sincerely request that you consider a donation to the Transverse Myelitis Association (TMA).  We cannot fathom how we would have addressed Ashley’s condition without the direction TMA has provided us.  It funds the camp we attend each year.  The association put us directly in touch with the most knowledgeable resources available to address the myriad of issues and complications that accompany ADEM.  It has made it possible for us to have hope for a continued recovery for Ashley.

You can join Lynn’s campaign at:

Thank you, and may God bless you and yours as we await the arrival of another winter.  To plagiarize the popular Irish poem a bit, “May the road rise up to meet you, may the wind always be at your back, may the sun shine warm upon your face, and may the snow fall softly upon your fields, never clinging to the street!”