It was on this date last year when we last heard Ashley speak to us. We had no idea what laid ahead following that call at 4:30 am. Her speech was labored, she complained she could not sleep and had a tingling sensation in her arms and hands. While we were anxious and quite concerned we assumed she was just exhausted from her trip out to Virginia and was dealing with some insomnia. We thought she would go into the emergency room and they would determine she just needed something to help her sleep for a few hours and then she would return to enjoying her trip. Of course it did not turn out that way.
We don’t know what caused Ashley’s demyelization. What we do know is that Ashley fights everyday to recover. Her ability to maintain a positive attitude a year later boarders on miraculous. While we hoped and prayed that Ashley would be walking and talking at this point we are thankful for the Ashley we have today.
She is making continuous strides. Ashley can communicate to us with her arm to indicate a yes answer. She is able to support her weight when standing. She comprehends conversations. Her long-term and short-term memory is strong. She responds to requests with movements immediately. She looks to the person speaking to her. She smiles and laughs significantly more than she shows sadness.
Most importantly she has the motivation to continue to make improvements. We all know that she will reach many more milestones.
Ashley could not have done this all on her own. We cannot begin to thank everyone that has played a major role in her recovery. Quite frankly we don’t even know the majority of the people that are supporting and praying for Ashley. She has lived her faith based life in a manor that has drawn admiration and respect. Her giving and caring attitude has now been transformed into receiving love and care.
On behalf of Ashley, Thank you and God bless you!
Monday, June 30, 2008
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ASHLEY MARIE--
I
LOVE
YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo!!!!
Emily :)
(just imagine that really big, in super bold letters and written across the sky, okay? haha perfect)
Ashley -
From my own expereince with a chronic disease, I know this aniversery must be bittersweet for you and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your parents, and your brother today. Its a time to celebrate the progress you've made, but its also a time to mourn (sort of what has brought you to this anniversery.
Love,
Justine
Dear Harringtons,
We thought of you, and prayed for you, all day yesterday. June
30th, a full year since Ashley became ill. We know how difficult this year has been, and want you to know how much we admire all of you for your tender and caring ways in bringing Ashley so far in her recuperation.
Ashley, we are so proud of you for the hard work you endure each day on your road to recovery! Your kind and loving spirit shines through in your beautiful smile! May our prayers and love continue to surround you on your journey.
We love you,
Aunt Barb, Uncle Mike, and family
Dearest Ashley,
Living here in Cincinnati and only getting to see you a few times this year, I was always amazed at how much progress you had made since I had last gotten to see you. But I know that each of these past 365 days has been a huge challenge to keep working at the seemingly tiny accomplishments that build into the greater. I can't even begin to imagine the lessons in the patient endurance the bible speaks of that you, your mother and father, and Austin continue to learn.
I'm sure you know how much we all love you, how proud of you we all are and how much we daily pray and look for your complete recovery. I just want to send that out to you again, Ashley...and to you - Mary, Jeff and Austin. Your daily effort and faith in this process is a constant challenge to me in the midst of my little day to day struggles. I often think, "Well, if Ashely can do that, I better get in the game with my stuff!"
Hope to see you soon, but until then know you are daily in my thoughts.
your loving Uncle, Ed
Dear Ashley,
I sat at the keyboard for a long time trying to put my feelings into words. I can't manage much more than to tell you how much we love you, pray for you, and continue to be amazed by your determination and faith. You, Austin, and your mother and father continue to be in our daily prayers.
Love, aunt Lynn, Uncle Stan, and Angela
Ashley,
We are very impressed by your progress. Our thoughts are with you.
Love,
Jeff, Becky, Dan & Paul
ashley i am so proud of you and how dedicated you've been in your recovery! not a day goes by that i don't think of you and read your blog - even if there isn't a new update i still reread it just to make sure i haven't missed anything :) i have a 5 year old on my tee ball team whose name is ashley and just yesterday day i was telling her about my friend ashley and how she has the brightest smile you'll ever see and she thought it was so cool that i knew another ashley and now she wants to be known as the ashley with the brightest smile too. i hope all is well and i cant wait to hear again about how awesome you are doing.
laura k
Dear Ashley-
Thank you for sharing yourself with all of us. Christ's light shines through you. It is seen in your smile, it is seen in your strength and it is seen in your fight to get better. You will forever touch more people than you will ever know. God is working through you and your struggle even though we may not understand.
My prayers are with you and your family always. Be strong when you can and know you have family that will be with you when you can't. You are a fantastic young woman Ashley!
God bless
:)
Melissa ( Aunt Lynn's friend)
Dear Harringtons,
Happy Fourth of July! Wow! What a difference a year can make. Ashley has made icredible physical progress and has joined the rest of us in making great progress on our day to day journey to be closer to the Good Lord.
Ashley, I went on a whale watch several weeks ago and saw tons (literally) of humpback whales. Now that was impressive! Maybe I will go into Marine Biology when I grow up. There is an awesome facility on The Cape called Woods Hole. They do serious research 'in the field' so to speak!
God bless,
E.Martin
We continue to pray for Ashley and all the Harringtons. You have touched our heart and soul forever. I pray as well as my children daily that Ashley will make a full recovery. I am definitely praying for a miracle! Lots of love and it was great getting to talk to you at church a few weeks ago.
Yours in Christ
Anne Miller (Jimmy's mom)
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