We have a lot to report in the update for last week.
Ashley continues to make important gains. Ashley began squeezing her left hand a while ago. In fact we bought a nerf dart gun for her to shoot. She would occasionally get off a shot after a bit of encouragement. Well now there is no mistaking that Ashley can squeeze that left hand – hard! She is also now squeezing her right hand which is great news.
Another noticeable change is the amount of vocalization that Ashley is doing. It used to be very difficult for her to create sound. Now she not only is doing so on request, but she is doing it on her own. We aren’t hearing words yet, but it is just a matter of time now.
Last week Austin and I attended a conference on Rare Neuroimmunilogical Disorders (say that five times fast). This was coordinated by the Transverse Myelitis Association. Transverse Myelitis is to the spinal cord what ADEM is to the brain (demyelinization of the axons). Both diseases are quite rare. This will give you a perspective. This year 1 in 600 Americans will experience a stroke. For Multiple Sclerosis that ratio is about 1 in 50,000. For Transverse Myelitis it is estimated to be 1 in 200,000. For ADEM (Ashley’s condition) it is thought to be 1 in 2,000,000.
There were probably 50-75 people with Transverse Myelitis at the convention. There were only 2 people with ADEM. We had the pleasure of meeting those two incredible individuals. Jodie is from London, England. She encountered ADEM about a year and a half ago. Jodie shows very few outward signs of the disorder. George is from Miami, Florida. He came along with his wife, sister and brother in-law. George also was afflicted with ADEM about a year and a half ago. George is working on refining fine motor skills and some cognitive issues. Jodie, George and Ashley have a common bond; all three were living blessed lives and now they are working harder than anyone can imagine toward restoring their abilities. Both Jodie and George were very encouraging. They told us that they have fought the battles Ashley is facing and they progressed. We will certainly put Ashley in touch with both of them. We know their direct encouragement to Ashley will enhance her determination to continue to work hard toward recovery. They will serve as excellent role models.
In addition to the friendships we made and the stories of encouragement we heard we were also exposed to a lot of information from experts in these rare conditions. A wide range of topics was covered in three full days of meetings. We are anxious to translate what we have learned and apply it for Ashley’s benefit. As we do so we will be sure to provide you with updates as to how our new found knowledge is translating into gains for Ashley.
The symposium was also our first opportunity to meet Sandy Siegel face-to-face. Sandy's wife Pauline contracted Transverse Myelitis over a decade ago. At the time there were scarcely any resources on the condition. Sandy was instrumental in founding, and is the president of the Transverse Myelitis Association. When we first were told that Ashley was suffering from demyelinization we turned to the internet for information. We found the association and that lead us to Sandy. Sandy immediately returned our call and put us in touch with Dr. Greenberg at Johns Hopkins. Over the past year Sandy has proactively contacted us with information. He has helped countless others in seeking assistance with these rare conditions. The association website is www.myelitis.org. Your support of this organization would be greatly appreciated.
On another note we want to encourage the mantra Ashley’s friend Emily has started of praying for “Walking, Talking and Eating”. We are seeing progress in all three of these critical areas and we know the power of prayer is a main contributor. As such we ask all of you to include in your prayers for Ashley that she continue to improve in her ability to walk, talk and eat.
We are excited and thankful for the strides Ashley has made over the last year. We are also more encouraged than ever that Ashley will make a remarkable recovery. Thanks to all of you, that through your support and prayers for Ashley, we are not facing this alone.
Monday, July 21, 2008
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Ashley,
I'm so glad your dad was able to meet Jodi and George at the conference. They will beable to relate to what you are going through because they have been there. I talked to Grandma and she told me you were doing a good job swallowing, I know you will continue to improve and I have not forgotten my promise to bring you the peanut butter cake from Suzie's cafe. Oh, Jess wants to be there to have a piece too, and to make sure I don't take the biggest piece!!!!! She says "hi" and can't wait to see you,and show you her teeth without braces. Like Emily we will all continue to pray for walking,talking, and eating. Can't wait to watch you shoot the nerf gun. God has his arms wrapped tight around you Ashley and he will NEVER LET GO. Much love Aunt Beth, Uncle Craig, Alex, and Jessica
Hi Guys,
Ashley, I think I told you how awesome it was to see you!
Just got a call today from a lady at church, and the prayer group has been praying for you for the whole time :)
We were at Susie's for breakfast, yest. forgot Jess works there. but she wasn't there. Darn. of course Uncle Dave would have loved to annoy her.
We love y'all (were just in the South for two weeks :)
Love,
A. Kathy xx
Ashley--
Hello, sweetheart! I was so happy to see you after our long spell (2 weeks is really pushing it for me! haha!). Oh, you're looking so good!
What a night we had, huh?! I am so happy I got to see you kicking butt at your PT home-session! That was great! Even if it meant Twilight had to be put on hold-- I suppose we can allow that sacrifice! (I hope you're smiling!) We will get back to Edward soon, I promise!
But "honestly" ("Are you honest?" inside joke, Ash, I know you're smiling now!), it was wonderful to see you in your element, working hard and progressing! And I got to meet your neighbors, finally! How lovely! I'd say it was time well-spent!
I'm so happy your daddy and brother got the opportunity to go to the convention. I prayed for them the entire time they were gone, for safe travels and good news and information. Looks like God came through again! ;)
It also looks like our little saying is catching on even more! Well, there is nothing wrong with that! Let all of our voices and thoughts be raised to God so He can hear our prayers and soon you'll be Walking, Talking, and Eating!
Focus, Ash: Beach! Ocean! Florida! Yay! haha! Woo!
I love you, Ash! Can't wait to see you again!
God Bless,
XoXo,
Emily*
Ashley,
At last evening's Mass, my priest's homily was centered on how easy it is to praise God when things are going well, but how challenging it can be when chaos enters our lives. Rather than ask "Why me?" he urged us to ask "What am I supposed to learn from this? What is God trying to teach me?" He encouraged us to praise God even amidst the chaos.
Ashley, I tell you this because you, your parents, and Austin are the true examples of what Fr. Leo was preaching. As I monitor your progress via this blog, and witness the deep, abiding faith of your family amidst the "chaos", I find that my own faith is strengthened. What a gift that is to me! I thank you all.
I think of you daily, and all of you are ever in my prayers.
Trish (Florida family)
Philippians 4:13
Hi Ashley,
Wow, it was Wonderful to see you. You're doing so well,you make me feel Good!
Love to you all,
Aunt Kathy xx
hey ashley! i cannot believe how great you are doing! you are inspiration for me and i know you will continue working hard. i'll be home in a little over a week and i can't wait to see you! i love you lots, ash...
adrienne
Hi Ashley,
It was great seeing you Saturday.
Each time we see you we realize how much your hard work, determination, and faith are making you stronger. You look great and your physical progress shows. Eat, talk, walk...we love you. Aunt Lynn, Uncle Stan and Angela
Ashley,
I'm so happy to hear that you are continuing to improve your motor skills, such as squeezing your hands and making sounds. I love reading the blog updates because there's always a new accomplishment or milestone. It's very exciting! And it is only a matter of time now. Also, I will hopefully see you on August 19! That's when I'm planning on driving out to school. I can't wait to visit :)
Love,
Kelly
Ashley,
It was beautiful to see you and your family at church this past weekend. What progress you have made! Even though we weren't able to stop and chat, please know that you all are in our daily prayers. Keep fighting!
The Wittes
Dear Ashley,
Hi! I had the pleasure of meeting your wonderful Dad and brother at the the T.M conference. I wanted to get in touch with you as I know how difficult your situation is, as I too had A.D.E.M two years ago. I was 30 when this awful condition hit me, and turned my life upside down. I was paralysed from the chest down and have learnt to do everything again. I can now walk pretty well and am aiming for running. Last winter I even managed to go snowboarding! Its a long process but you will get there, I have faith that you can do it. You are not alone, and I will do whatever I can to help. Keep smiling, we will get there!
Best wishes
Jodie
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