On Saturday Ashley danced at her cousin’s wedding. More precisely Dad danced and Ashley was holding on for dear life. In any case one of the motivators we used when patterning Ashley for walking was that we wanted to see her dance at her Jessica and Joe’s wedding. This always brought a smile to her face.
Well on Saturday night she got out of her chair on the dance floor and to the cheers of onlookers Ashley held her self up and we did some limited moves dancing.
On the Walk, Talk and Eat front, Ashley continues to take more and more unassisted steps each time we pattern her. While she still needs support from her walker or someone else it is so encouraging. Her consistency of eating, as well as the volume she is taking orally has definitely improved over the last few weeks. While we are still waiting on that first clear word Ashley is increasing the frequency of making sounds as well as an increasing the variety of pitch.
Ashley will celebrate her 21st birthday this Thursday. We could not be more proud. Just a little over a year ago we would have anticipated her starting her junior year at Saint Mary’s and starting to narrow down her school selections for her masters as a Physician’s Assistant. Now we know that God has other plans for Ashley. She is taking a hiatus from college, but as we watch her slowly progress and witness, what is to us, Ashley’s miraculous motivation and positive attitude it is becoming clearer that she will have a special vocation.
May we never fail to mention our awareness that there is a special partnership between Ashley’s hard work and the prayers and support we have received. It is blessed combination that knows no earthly limitation.
Tuesday, September 23, 2008
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Congratulations on both dancing and the birthday! I hope it is a good one!
-Adam W.
Ashley, I can't wait to see pictures of you dancing. Each time I read the blog you are doing more and more. It is your hard work and positive attitude that keeps you moving forward. Have a Happy Birthday and I hope to see you soon. Love Aunt Beth, Uncle Craig, Alex, and Jessica
Ashley--
Hey girl heeey! It was so good seeing you this past weekend. I missed you the moment I had to leave. I know you're doing a kick-"booty" job at all of your therapy sessions-- keep up the amazing work. You make this dancer girl proud! :) Show them those dance moves!
I continue to pray "Walk, Talk, and Eat" every day. Reading and seeing each improvement every week is so wonderful. My vocabulary is failing me because what you do and what you have-- your determination, your faith, your spirit-- are so awe-inspiring, I can't express it adequately enough. You, Miss Ashley, are so amazing.
Now, don't forget, I will KNOW if you open up that birthday present. So hold out! I hope you like it!
Happy 21st Birthday and *CHEERS!*
I love you,
XoXo,
Emily*
Good job with all of the progress Ashley! I wish that I could have seen you dance with your dad, as I am sure that it was an exciting event! I hope that you continue to achieve more goals with each passing day and that you have a happy 21st birthday with the family!
John Grashoff
Ashley,
Our hope is that your 21st is a special day for you. We loved seeing and talking with you at church a few Sundays ago. Keep up the VERY hard work. We are confident God has special plans for you!
Love,
The Wittes
Ashley, it was such a joy seeing you at the wedding Saturday. And you are doing SOOOOOO amazingly well. The progress I see in you is incredible. Keep up the good work, and I can't wait to see you again soon. Much love,
Aunt Becky (and the Kentucky Slaters)
Ashley, please have someone in your family contact me through email....smanor87@yahoo.com.....thank you....sarah.....have a good birthday!!
Ashley!
Happy early birthday! It's a big one this year! :) We miss you here at Saint Mary's sooo much. But I'm glad to hear that you've been dancing.
Love you,
Nadine
What's this????? Ashley Harrington
is busting out the moves on the dance floor!!! You go Girl!! Every time i check in on you and your family I KNOW our PRAYERS being answered! Ashley, your 21st birthday is a momentous occasion for sure, and while many 21 year olds are busy contemplating life, you are living yours with GRACE, and DETERMINATION! What a beautiful girl you are!
Your parents and brother continue to be the "WIND beneath your Wings" who knows what accomplishments lie ahead... With God anything is possible! I firmly believe that Our Lord is Walking with all of you on this journey! Do you feel Him over your shoulder as you continue moving those legs????? Here's to continued smiles and happy times shared with those you love the most.
We wish you the Happiest 21st Birthday Ever! With much love and continued prayers!
Claudia, Jerry, Holly and Lauren
P.S. I know Holly has a surprise for you, I'm sure she will be stopping over very soon! Kisses and Hugs!
Hi Ashley,
We were so happy to read about your dancing at your cousin's wedding. What a beautiful picture that must have been. Happy Birthday honey. Aunt Beth, Angela and I would like to come see you on Sunday. I'll touch base with your mom. We love you and continue our prayer...walk, talk, eat, (and dance) Love, Aunt Lynn, Uncle Stan and Angela and Mittens
Dear Ashley,
I'm so glad you can dance! I heard about how you can walk, too. I joined Central striders, which is basically a program where you can walk/jog/run/skip etc. around the school. Sometimes football players/basketball players/the principal etc. walks/jogs/runs/skips with us. You have to go* around the outside of the school to earn a lap. I have 15 laps already. To get a bracelet and a white foot (explanation on its way) you need 20 laps. I'm so close!!! A white foot is a small plastic charm shaped like a foot (yes, it's white) that you put on the bracelet. Then there's more colors for more laps. I can't wait to groove with you! Maybe you can teach me some rockin' moves.
Love,
Angie (and Mittens!)
Happy 21st Birthday, Ashley Marie!!! I can still remember coming to the hospital to see you the day you were born. You were such a sweet little princess that day, and have grown into such a beautiful young woman!
Thanks so much for being with Jessie at her weddding Saturday, you will never know how much that meant to her, (and all of us)! It was a a blast having you dance with us at the reception and giggling together as we did our family rendition of the Y-M-C-A!!
You are always in our hearts and our prayers, and every step forward you make is such a thrill for all of us. We love you so much! Aunt Barb, Uncle Mike and all
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ASHLEY!!!!!!!!!!!! wow! i can't believe you're turning 21!! it was just yesterday that you were always over at our house hanging out with adrienne, dressing up and singing and dancing (like when you guys were in grade school!)!! :)
and you're still dancing!! that's so exciting!
I look at your blog every single day, even if there aren't any new posts, i love looking at that picture with your award winning smile... it always makes me smile and try and get mine to look that good :), although it's usually unsuccessful.. haha
i've been going swimming almost everyday here at purdue... it makes me miss swim season and getting to ride with you to practice! i remember all our crazy times... like when you would change into your swim suit.. while you were driving!! and i'd be holding on to the door saying ashley, ashley!!! and you would just laugh. we both made it to practice in one piece thanks to your awesome skills :) thanks for that!!
you are sooooo amazing and your determination is awe-inspiring! I am so proud of you! keep up at being amazing and an inspiration to all! i love you ashley and think about you and pray for you every day!
have an excellently fun 21st birthday!!!!!! --don't party too hard ;)
love,
charlese :)
Ashley,
Happy Birthday! I frequently read your blog and am happy to see you are making such great progress.
Happy 21st Birthday Ashley!!! Keep up the good work, and we are all praying and thinking of you!!! Hope you have a great 21st!!!
Love
Meredith
HAPPY BIRTHDAY ASHLEY!!!! I was thinking about it, and the two of us have been celebrating each other's birthdays for the past 15 years! Can you believe it? 21 is such as big number...it kinda freaks me out!
Have a wonderful birthday, and hopefully I'll get to see you soon! We can dance together...maybe a little Hanson music??!!!
Love always,
Sam
P.S. I really miss our Tuesday's...
Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday to you, Happy Birthday dear Ashley! Ash, as the officially oldest member of our friend circle, I think it is my duty to welcome you into the 21 club! woot! woot! I totally have a surprise for you that I want to drop off this weekend! I hope you will be home! Miss you and cant wait to see you! XOXO, Holly
Happy Birthday Ashley. You are soooooo busted! Changing into your swimsuit while driving.....I guess mom and dad won't go too hard on you since it is your 21st Birthday! We love you. Aunt Lynn
Happy birthday Ashley.
-Cousin Ben
Hi Ashley
Kathy and I were at your Grandparents today (Sunday) Really cool pictures of you dancing. The smile on your face was fantastic. I have a meeting in Fort Wayne in October - I will brink Aunt Kathy up to see you while i am working. Look forward to seeing you all.
Love you
Uncle Dave.
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